Small Group Ministry
NEW SMALL GROUP MINISTRY GROUPS TO BEGIN SOON
The Spring term 2013 of our Small Group Ministry (SGM) program begins February 10th and will run through approximately May 19, 2013.
To participate in a group you must sign up on Sunday January 27 or February 3rd in the Social Hall after each service.
You can also sign up for one of these COMMITTED GROUPS by
emailing Jean Rosenthal, Chair, SGM Steering Committee jean@jeanerik.net 203/234-1398, or marion.visel@gmail.com 203/288-1807 ext 207,BEGINNING JANUARY 27TH with your name, phone number, email address, and the group for which you wish to sign up.
SMALL GROUP MINISTRY – SPRING 2013
February 10, 2013 – May 19, 2013 (holiday schedules determined by group)
Each Small Group Ministry session includes readings, personal sharing time, questions, focused discussion, and evaluation. Early on group members develop a covenant that encourages trust and emotional safety by clarifying process and confidentiality.
PARENTS OF YOUNG CHILDREN GROUP
Sunday 4:00 pm, 1st Sunday of the month at USNH
First meeting March 3 **Nursery, childcare provided**
Jody Clouse, facilitator
SPIRITUAL TOPICS IN EVERYDAY LIFE GROUP
Spiritual topics in everyday life: This small group will draw from members’ experiences, passions, relationships, memories, and dreams to discover and discuss aspects that could be doors to the spiritual part of our lives and beings.
1st and 3rd Sundays, 12:30 – 2:30 pm at USNH
First meeting February 17
Tom Hardin, facilitator
BUDDHIST LENS GROUP
Readings from Buddhist literature, time for meditation
2nd and 4th Mondays at USNH
First meeting February 11
Paul Trotta, coordinator
KNOWING OUR TRUE SELVES GROUP
We’ll share life lessons that help us become a better
person, and create a more fulfilling life. We’ll share our experiences, concerns, challenges and success. We’ll use as a guide the book “Life Lessons” by E. Kubler-Ross & D. Kessler. It’s a book about the mysteries of life and living. Come and discuss with our group these lessons that “make us who we are.” Please purchase the book and have it available for our first meeting.
Every other Tuesday, 7–9 pm at USNH
First meeting February 19
Harvey Weinstein, facilitator
SPIRITUAL TOPICS IN OUR LIVES GROUP
Through readings, sharing, listening, and reflection
** for women of all ages**
3rd Tuesday 7:00 – 9:00 pm at facilitator’s home, North Haven
First meeting Feb 19
Jean Rosenthal, facilitator
SINGING TOGETHER IN SOUND AND SILENCE GROUP
We open to the possibility for joy by combining two time-honored spiritual practices: singing out to the divine mystery and sitting silently to listen for response. We explore the beauty and power that lie in the alternation and juxtaposition of these two disciplines. Communal vocalizing carries each deeply into the silence of our authentic selves and can unite us in voice and heart, and help us recover the
voices of our souls (adapted from Singing Meditation by Ruthie Rosauer and Liz Hill). Come prepared to lift up your voice!
Wednesdays, 6:30-8:00pm February 13 & 27, March 13 & 27, April 10 & 24
First meeting February 13
In New Haven, 392 Whitney Ave at Cottage Street (2nd Floor walk-up)
Jackie Trimble Shapiro and Kath Schomaker, co-facilitators
MANNA MEN’S GROUP
Exploring how ancient texts are relevant to the relationships and transitions in men’s lives. For the spring term we will consider a mythology that is foreign to us — The Egyptian Amudat — a story of how to navigate the darkness of night for rebirth into a new day. It’s a story about transitions as we move from one stage of our lives to the next. Part of the story will be presented first meeting of each month with continued discussion of issues raised during the second meeting of the month.
1st and 3rd Wednesday, 7:00-9:00 pm in Sanctuary or Children’s Chapel Exception: 2nd and 4th Wednesday of Feb.
First meeting February 13
Larry Rizzolo, coordinating
SELECTED SPIRITUAL TOPICS GROUP
Open to all interested
1st and 3rd Thursdays **afternoons** 1:00 – 2:30pm at USNH
First session February 7
Ellen Mahoney and Gwen Heuss-Severance, co-facilitators
Members of the Steering Committee can also answer questions you might have.
Jean Rosenthal, Chair jean@jeanerik.net 203/234-1398
Ellen Mahoney ellierem@webtv.net 203/288-5940
Gwen Heuss-Severance gheuss@sbcglobal.net 203/288-3731
Greg Berg ghberg@comcast.net 203/553-7045
According to an essay by David Brooks in the January 17, 2011 New Yorker, “Research over the past thirty years makes it clear that waht the inner mind really wants is connection. … Joining a group that meets just once a month produces the same increase in happiness as doubling your income.”
Small Group Ministry provides an opportunity to consider the meaningful spirituality in your life and a way to join others in the search for “intimacy and ultimacy.” The format of each session is designed to support connections and community. Newcomers and longer-term members find it a good way to get to know a few people better, particularly helpful in a large congregation like ours.
Open to all members and friends of USNH and others who may be interested. One need not be a member of USNH to join. There are two ”terms” of Small Group Ministry, the Fall term meets from mid-October to mid-January, the Spring term meets from mid-February to the end of May. Consistent groups of 6 – 10 persons meet with a trained facilitator once or twice a month for a total of 4 to 8 sessions per Small Group Ministry term.
Groups meet at USNH or in individual homes. There are groups on many days of the week and times of the day. Some groups use a variety of readings or themes, and others are centered around particular themes. Examples of session themes are; solitude, community, service, hope and hopelessness, forgiveness, being present, civility, humor, the power of beliefs, animals, a sacred place, learning from failure, etc. There is some variation in format but most group sessions have an opening reading, a time for personal check-in, a reading for consideration, group exploration of a topic, a sharing of likes and wishes for the session, and a closing reading.
Executive Summary – USNH Small Group Ministry Program
1. Evaluation Process. In 2012-13 the Small Group Ministry (SGM) program introduced evaluations for all participants and facilitators every term (Fall and Spring). Previously a survey was conducted every 2 years. This evaluation summary does not include our successful drop-in sessions, the SGM section of Pathways to Membership, or individuals not participating in SGM.
Thanks to Greg Berg who tabulated the results, and contributed analysis, along with SGM Steering Committee Chair, Jean Rosenthal, and members, Ellen Mahoney, and Gwen Heuss-Severance. Rev. Marion Visel staffs SGM program.
Response Rates
During 2012, there were 17 groups and an estimated 170 participants in those groups. We received evaluation forms from approximately one half of the participants and facilitators.
2. Demographics of Participants
. 1/5 associated with USNH less than one year
1/5 have been associated with USNH for 1 to 2 years
40% of the participants have a history with the society of less than 2 years
remaining respondents associated with USNH for 3 or more years, including 10 persons who have been associated for more than 11 years
B. Number of times they participated in a small group ministry group
29% of the respondents had never before been in small group ministry
10% had been a group once before while 21% had been in 2 or 3 groups before
40% of the respondents had been in 4 or more groups previously (including 12 persons who had been in 6 or more groups)
C. Attracting newcomers as well as long-term members: 40% with USNH less
than 2 years; nearly 1/3 not members yet
- Eighteen of the respondents are not members of USNH; almost 1/3
- more than 70% of the respondents were aged 50 or older
- more than 45% of the respondents were aged 60 or older
- 25% were between the ages of 20 and 50
- no respondents under age 20
– 76% of the respondents were women and 24% were men
3. Participants’ Scores on Quality of Their Group
Satisfaction with groups, topics, process: 100% responding said they would recommend SGM to a friend
B. In a small group, regular attendance at group meetings is very important to
maintain the intimacy and trust among members:
Almost 1/2 of the respondents did not miss any of the meetings of their group
C. More than 90% of all of the respondents strongly agreed that:
- All had an adequate opportunity to speak, and discussion stayed on track
- Participants adhered to the covenant and were respectful of one another
- Session topics were engaging and ones they could relate to
- Enough emphasis was placed on how topics related to spirituality, and the
group contributed to my spiritual growth (slightly lower scores)
- Overall, my participation in this group was worthwhile
4. Observations
- Small groups are providing a very meaningful, high-quality ministry experience to a substantial number of members and friends.
- Participants are very satisfied with most elements of the small group program and experience.
- The program is attracting persons new to small group ministry (and new to the society) as well as repeat participants.
- Some participants would like to see more topics related to spirituality and see a stronger connection to their spiritual growth.
- The small group program has attracted a substantial number of non-society members (one third of all participants).
- From the participants’ responses, we can infer that our facilitators are playing their roles very well.
- There are relatively few participants under the age of 40.
- Outside of the Manna group, the groups are mostly comprised of women.
5. Next Steps
On-line sign up process beginning Fall 2013 term, while still offering sign-up table, and email sign up
Possibly use on-line evaluation tool in future (easier to process but lower response rate)
Work with New Member Initiative group to plan integration of SGM tone into their sessions, and to work co-operatively on SGM sessions for visitors and new members
Continue to create affinity and topic oriented SGs which appeal to more diverse populations (particularly those under 40 yo, and men)
Strengthen facilitator training in the linking topics and discussions to spiritual growth
Create electronic versions of all SGM session material to facilitate access by facilitators, participants, and others
Create more groups with specific focus on a spiritual topic or area
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EXECUTIVE SUMMARY – USNH Small Group Ministry Program
1. Evaluation Process: In 2012-13 the Small Group Ministry (SGM) program introduced evaluations for all participants and facilitators every term (Fall and Spring). Previously a survey was conducted every 2 years. This evaluation summary does not include our successful drop-in sessions, the SGM section of Pathways to Membership, or individuals not participating in SGM.
Thanks to Greg Berg who tabulated the results, and contributed analysis, along with SGM Steering Committee Chair, Jean Rosenthal, and members, Ellen Mahoney, and Gwen Heuss-Severance. Rev. Marion Visel staffs SGM program.
Response Rates:
During 2012, there were 17 groups and an estimated 170 participants in those groups. We received evaluation forms from approximately one half of the participants and facilitators.
2. Demographics of Participants:
- 1/5 associated with USNH less than one year
- 1/5 have been associated with USNH for 1 to 2 years
- 40% of the participants have a history with the society of less than 2 years
- remaining respondents associated with USNH for 3 or more years, including 10 persons who have been associated for more than 11 years
B. Number of times they participated in a small group ministry group:
- 29% of the respondents had never before been in small group ministry
- 10% had been a group once before while 21% had been in 2 or 3 groups before
- 40% of the respondents had been in 4 or more groups previously (including 12 persons who had been in 6 or more groups)
C. Attracting newcomers as well as long-term members:
- 40% with USNH less than 2 years;nearly 1/3 not members yet
- 18 of the respondents are not members of USNH; almost 1/3
- more than 70% of the respondents were aged 50 or older
- more than 45% of the respondents were aged 60 or older
- 25% were between the ages of 20 and 50
- no respondents under age 20
- 76% of the respondents were women and 24% were men
3. Participants’ Scores on Quality of Their Group
Satisfaction with groups, topics, process:
- 100% responding said they would recommend SGM to a friend
B. In a small group, regular attendance at group meetings is very important to maintain the intimacy and trust among members:
- Almost 1/2 of the respondents did not miss any of the meetings of their group
C. More than 90% of all of the respondents strongly agreed that:
- All had an adequate opportunity to speak, and discussion stayed on track
- Participants adhered to the covenant and were respectful of one another
- Session topics were engaging and ones they could relate to
- Enough emphasis was placed on how topics related to spirituality, and the group contributed to my spiritual growth (slightly lower scores)
- Overall, my participation in this group was worthwhile
4. Observations:
- Small groups are providing a very meaningful, high-quality ministry experience to a substantial number of members and friends.
- Participants are very satisfied with most elements of the small group program and experience.
- The program is attracting persons new to small group ministry (and new to the society) as well as repeat participants.
- Some participants would like to see more topics related to spirituality and see a stronger connection to their spiritual growth.
- The small group program has attracted a substantial number of non-society members (one third of all participants).
- From the participants’ responses, we can infer that our facilitators are playing their roles very well.
- There are relatively few participants under the age of 40.
- Outside of the Manna group, the groups are mostly comprised of women
5. Next Steps:
- On-line sign up process beginning Fall 2013 term, while still offering sign-up table, and email sign up
- Possibly use on-line evaluation tool in future (easier to process but lower response rate)
- Work with New Member Initiative group to plan integration of SGM tone into their sessions, and to work co-operatively on SGM sessions for visitors and new members
- Continue to create affinity and topic oriented SGs which appeal to more diverse populations (particularly those under 40 yo, and men)
- Strengthen facilitator training in the linking topics and discussions to spiritual growth
- Create electronic versions of all SGM session material to facilitate access by facilitators, participants, and others
Create more groups with specific focus on a spiritual topic or area

